Surviving Sudden-Onset Ethical Non-Monogamy

Before You Dive In

Some things I want you to know before you get too far into this blog, because I don't really know where it will end up. But I do know...

I love my wife.

I love our family, I love the life we have created, and it’s the all-together most important thing to me. 

We’ve had our ups and downs. We’re both on our second marriage. We’re both still learning. Learning about ourselves, each other, humanity, social constructs, trauma, recovery, all of it.

And I am very lucky to have her to go through this with.

Not Emma Stone, when you read this, please remember this. I love you, always. (Even though “always” ir a really hard thing to promise about anything.)

That being said, what I write in these posts will not always be factual, or remembered correctly. Exaggerations will be made for emphasis or entertainment. I will subconsciously put a more noble spin on how I approach things, but I promise to note these when I notice them. (It being my own subconscious, though, I won’t notice it all the time.)

I hope this will be a healing, helpful, and honest account of our journey.

To Being Ethical, Always.

(Not) Ryan Gosling